The Right Way to Write

Hi. I'm currently being distracted from writing my 4 page essay on art history right now. I finished a little less than a page then decided to over to my aunts house right next door to chat with everyone out front. I mentioned to them how I hate when I write cause the bump on my ring finger hurts where the pen lays. They then informed me that they have a bump too but it's on their middle finger. So all of us were going around and showing how we wrote, turns out about half of us write like this


my hand

and the other half write like this


my moms hand

I am so curious cause I though I wrote the same as everyone else me whole life. Now I have to know, which way is right? How do you write?